We are creatures of habit. We are mentally programmed through our millions of years of evolution to move towards our comfort zone that we have become habituated to. We become creatures of habit over period of time, conditioned to accept and be around objects, places and people that we feel comfortable with.
We get held up in a place without experiencing what all the nature offers, we hold onto to material objects and possession and drive to accumulate more of these possessions without realizing that these mean nothing in our after life while instead of we enjoying the ownership more often than not these objects control the owner.
The same applies to people and relationships, at some times we get so immersed in one person or family that we fail to look into ourselves, discover our goals, experience life. People, friends and family come with expectations of all sorts, like-wise we create all kind of expectations. When things don't work out we try to intervene and try to make things work as per our "expectations". In doing so we become
1. Judgmental of others characters, actions
2. Become a Critique of situations (Criticizing)
By being Judgmental of others looks, actions and feelings we are allowing others to do the same of us, creating a loop unto ourselves which is self-defeating. By being a critique of situations we drain ourselves of our core life energies our "Prana" / "Chi" and simply throw it away as being in this Critique state means we fall down in our frequency and thus radiate out / loose out the higher frequency. The loss is something which is not immediately retrievable, we have to be rebuild our capacity and frequency back and is not an easy task as to not being critical of situations, objects and people.
In more than one way we eventually get held down in lower frequencies. Hence it is not in our best interest not be Judgmental of others or even ourselves.
Secondly we need to realize that Places, Objects, People and relationships alike don't last for ever and hence we should not have such expectations. We need to cherish our experiences with everything and everyone with our fullest heart and in that moment. If we have certain duties and responsibilities or obligations we have to ensure that they are fully delivered. But beyond these we should never be attached to these.
The life which is available and offered by the universe is immense, what limits us from experiencing life is "Ourselves" or "Mind". The block is within. We keep holding onto to the past, We hold on Grudges, We hold on to pain, We hold on to EXPECTATIONS, We hold on to memories of the past. In holding on we never move forward, we never can be in our current or the Present and hence cannot experience the life it was meant to be.
More often than not because of all that we Hold on to and limiting ourselves we lock down our potential unable to unlock ourselves out of our self imposed exile.
2018 and all the years before that are gone. All the times good and bad are history and are inconsequential truly. What matters is the now, what matters is what we want to experience now in this very moment.
I want to start becoming sensitive of myself, learning to calm down, disconnect from the past and situations around me, start not to judge anything and everything which comes across, instead look forward for moving ahead and being aware of our deep self.
If we experience pain, or a feeling of loneliness or to be with someone learn to calm down our minds first. Once our mind is calm and doesn't wander wildly it is time. It is time for self enquiry, the answer to what bothers us, why it bothers can be found.
The answer in all the cases is one...we are not connected to our self, we look outwardly. Being inward and being aware and accepting that all the things around us is an illusion and will change as we change our perspective of this life.
We get held up in a place without experiencing what all the nature offers, we hold onto to material objects and possession and drive to accumulate more of these possessions without realizing that these mean nothing in our after life while instead of we enjoying the ownership more often than not these objects control the owner.
The same applies to people and relationships, at some times we get so immersed in one person or family that we fail to look into ourselves, discover our goals, experience life. People, friends and family come with expectations of all sorts, like-wise we create all kind of expectations. When things don't work out we try to intervene and try to make things work as per our "expectations". In doing so we become
1. Judgmental of others characters, actions
2. Become a Critique of situations (Criticizing)
By being Judgmental of others looks, actions and feelings we are allowing others to do the same of us, creating a loop unto ourselves which is self-defeating. By being a critique of situations we drain ourselves of our core life energies our "Prana" / "Chi" and simply throw it away as being in this Critique state means we fall down in our frequency and thus radiate out / loose out the higher frequency. The loss is something which is not immediately retrievable, we have to be rebuild our capacity and frequency back and is not an easy task as to not being critical of situations, objects and people.
In more than one way we eventually get held down in lower frequencies. Hence it is not in our best interest not be Judgmental of others or even ourselves.
Secondly we need to realize that Places, Objects, People and relationships alike don't last for ever and hence we should not have such expectations. We need to cherish our experiences with everything and everyone with our fullest heart and in that moment. If we have certain duties and responsibilities or obligations we have to ensure that they are fully delivered. But beyond these we should never be attached to these.
The life which is available and offered by the universe is immense, what limits us from experiencing life is "Ourselves" or "Mind". The block is within. We keep holding onto to the past, We hold on Grudges, We hold on to pain, We hold on to EXPECTATIONS, We hold on to memories of the past. In holding on we never move forward, we never can be in our current or the Present and hence cannot experience the life it was meant to be.
More often than not because of all that we Hold on to and limiting ourselves we lock down our potential unable to unlock ourselves out of our self imposed exile.
2018 and all the years before that are gone. All the times good and bad are history and are inconsequential truly. What matters is the now, what matters is what we want to experience now in this very moment.
I want to start becoming sensitive of myself, learning to calm down, disconnect from the past and situations around me, start not to judge anything and everything which comes across, instead look forward for moving ahead and being aware of our deep self.
If we experience pain, or a feeling of loneliness or to be with someone learn to calm down our minds first. Once our mind is calm and doesn't wander wildly it is time. It is time for self enquiry, the answer to what bothers us, why it bothers can be found.
The answer in all the cases is one...we are not connected to our self, we look outwardly. Being inward and being aware and accepting that all the things around us is an illusion and will change as we change our perspective of this life.
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